Happy people plan actions, they don’t plan results. – Dennis Waitley
Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions. – Dalai Lama
Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity. – Zig Ziglar
You can take your life in two ways, either positively or negatively. However, in most cases, people take their life negatively.
If you take your life negatively, everything will seem to you negative, even the perfect moment with your loved ones.
Why we will do it; In fact, why we are doing it now; because negativity consistently attracts us.
In today’s world where positive conversations are less, still, people run for negativities. Have you ever noticed that you watch those programs which spared negativities?
In fact, our life is like a computer monitor, if you put information related to negativities you will get the result related to negativities.
A Negative news will increase your negative mindset about the world; in opposite to that, a positive life lesson or a short time of sport or playing will encourage you to do something new.
Here are 10 Ways through which you can live positively
Attract Positivity: When you start your daily work make sure that you focus your attention on the positives only. For example, instead of mail checking do some meditation; relax your mind and prepare it for the rest of the day.
At the first place, it is easy for us to make a choice at the moment without knowing the result of it. If you start to make wise choices your life will also reflect that, one choice at a time to change our life in a positive way.
Give up Judgmental Mind: Everyone in this world has a unique way to live – no one matches with one another. If you force others to fall in your shoes, you will end up with sorrows.
In fact, try not to judge anyone, instead, observe and learn. Every setback and embarrassment may lead you to a new success, or a new journey.
At least if you don’t get anything you will get peace of mind. In a way the day will pass new things will start – changes are the part of it. When we get used to the change, we find peace.
Change perspective: Whenever you decide to do something – start it with a positive mindset, even if it seems difficult. Typically our mind fears to take responsibilities that do not come under our comfort zones. Be open-minded and take new challenges, and every week tries to do something new that you have never tried before.
For example, you can start a water campaign for those who need water. It would be free of cost with a lot of blessing.
Grow Plants: In your spare times grow plants, flowers and others healthy fruits would be a good choice. Even more, gardening will also help you in releasing your stress. There are various types of flowers you can grow. I have a lot of flowers in my garden; it always helps me in maintaining a positive outlook.
Accept Yourself: I have found that if you think and believe that you’re not complete or you don’t look good, you will never be happy. Accept the way you look. No matter if you’re fat, thin or have any other problems. As long as you can fix it, no worry, if you can’t then also worry is worthless.
You can accomplish a lot of things in life if you start from where you are. Recently Paralympics held – many of the gold that our country received from those individuals who are partially not fit in general people’s eyes, but look what they did. For a lot of things we curse ourselves, but we never look for the door which always remains open for us.
Create plans: Give yourself a plan for the upcoming five years. Drive your mind and daily works to achieve that milestone.
When we work for a particular goal, we tend to focus on our priorities rather than other unnecessary stuff. If you face any difficulties – don’t be sad for that – take it as a positive impact, at least you have started something new – where else if you have not had begun it yet how come you will understand the difference.
Get Rid of Negative People: In our daily life there are plenty of people those who influence us with their negativities – avoid them as much as you can. Their negativity comes from their past experiences that don’t mean it would be yours as well. In the like manner, experience the unknowns; gain the knowledge first before you come to a conclusion.
Get Out of Fear: If you fear to take any actions, then it would be hard for you to do something meaningful, fear will not allow you to do it. Have you ever noticed that those who spread negativities they afraid a lot of things? In fact, you will see that they hardly face public or public opinion. In their life, they are not accountable for their actions.
Write Positive Journal: Maintain a positive journal. Record the positive experience in your everyday lives. Journal will help you in many ways; it will help you in making a right decision. I have been doing it for many years. One thing I’ve found – It helps me in dealing with my bad days. When I find myself sad, it helps me in exploring my thoughts and the positive side of the stories. In fact, I had written a few articles on this subject as well. There are different kinds of subjects you can focus on writing, such as a daily journal of productivity.
Spend Time With Families: Instead of looking for happiness in smoking, drinking, drugs or any other addictions try to spend time with your families or friends. At the first phase, it might sound unrealistic for most of us, but in reality, your happiness remains in the real world, not with that imaginary world. Follow your heart, follow your passion, do something that will benefit the world, do something that will spread happiness in the world. Be remembered for your talent, not for your evil deeds.