Have you ever considered giving up? Of course, no not at all. What am I talking about? Giving up is not an option, we have learned that from teachings and lessons, but I dare you to differ from that.
Giving up is an art, but immature giving up is awful, but a mature giving up is not as bad as you think. Sometimes giving is necessary for our life because it is the only one that helps us to retrieve a failure situation.
For intense, you love to run a wooden store, but somehow you failed to achieve success through it, but you insisted yourself to believe that you will not list yourself in the failures. Of course, it is not a shame unless it becomes a barrier for you. I know some people those who have excellent qualities to become a great painter or a great photographer, even a successful hair stylist as well, but instead of that, they pitch their full energy to somewhere else.
Where they are weak, but they think that they would be successful through it. It is nothing but a misconception. Everyone has a unique quality in him. It is his/her duty to explore that unless he/she invent that it would be hard for them to get to the success. (In my views success is happiness).
Let’s find out how you need to give up
Drive through Passion: Here is the first one, drive through your passion, but not by your necessities. When you drive through your passion, work becomes playfulness, but when you drive through necessities work becomes a burden. And I believe everyone loves to live his life with playfulness.
Apply Conditioning: Do you find yourself comfortable with your job or you feel like your job is applying conditions that you don’t love in miles, then it is the work that you don’t like at all. Conditions need to come from you, not by the external forces. For example, if you love to sing, no wonder you will do it without anyone’s prior advice or deadlines because of you simply in love with it.
Measure Productivity: I work in the field of productivity, what I see in people is that they are less productive when they hate their job. No wonder it should need to happen, you can force yourself for day’s even months but not in years. Moreover, it will not only destroy your productivity, but also carried away your creativity.
Become a Daredevil: Do you really don’t know what your true passion is then started finding it out; life is too short, why you should spend it on something that you don’t love. Be creative do something that you care about, even when it seems weary the first time, no matter, after all, you love it. One day, two-day who knows, someday you will become a creator of your field.
Don’t Fool Yourself: There are those people who find their passion and they know that this is the way to which they will go to get their success, but still they don’t drive themselves to it, they fear about the financial securities and plans, really? Do you think if you seek support and safety you will end up with something that will give you a name in this world? No, don’t try to make yourself a fool.
Sketch a Plan: Yes, it would be a sketch because no plan would be a final one. There will come a time when everything will fall apart, you will feel that you made a big mistake, but remember that is the time when you need to stick to it because you are now so close to your dreams. It is your final exam. Pass out with distinction.
Never Depend on Group: Remember, don’t look for a group or any individual who will help you or will become a support to you, never wait for that. Start by yourself all alone as a lone ranger. You will have to do it by yourself, it’s your way, your passion you will enjoy the fruit no one else. Be brave and chase your dreams.
Dream Unnecessarily Big: I can recall the movie Inception where at a point Tom Hardy quoted to Joseph Gordon-Levitt “Think at least big in your dreams.” What happens in life too, think big, no matter if it is unnecessarily big or looks foolish, even the foolish one can become a reality, only you just need to believe in yourself.
In life-giving up is not tough. Tough is to believe in yourself, believing in your dreams and believing in your abilities. If once you successfully achieve it, I am going to bet on you without a single question. Oh, of course, I forgot to ask you “will you give my money back when I win?”