In some ways, this question realities of those people who want to change their life or else faced a harsh reality that forces them to think about their life again. And it’s not at all a bad thing. Who doesn’t want to improve his or her life, of course, if he or she is aware of the fact that only spending quality time and money for you would be the best thing in compression with other staffs, like spending excessive money for dress’s, buying expensive phones? These things never last long, if anything remains would be the qualifications or skills that you have learned.
It doesn’t matter you are aware of that fact or not; life will force you to learn that, either with a straight way or else with a painful way. So the question is what should we need to do right now that would be beneficial for us in near future?
You can make this happen in two ways, either you can follow the path that will help you to improve your skills as a person or else you can pick the path of exploration of life, finding the purpose. One step at a time, being in a hurry, always leads you to the failure.
Be A Learner
It’s a harsh reality, and we need to accept it, naturally our tendency is to pretend that we know everything in life better than others, and that leads us to become a person who criticizes a lot, and gradually find himself unhappy in every aspect of life.
It would be best to switch that mode to be a learner, learn from others, and seek help when it is necessary. Through that way, you can easily get some quality lessons from others, and it would be free of cost. Give advice only when you ask to give that, otherwise keep silent. Silence has immense power with it.
Start thinking positively about yourself and your life, appreciate what you have, and forgive yourself for those mistakes that you have done. Who doesn’t make mistakes; it’s a part of life, it works as a prove to be human. What counts the most is what you have done when you realize that, only regrets, or choose to be a better version of yours next time.
I think there are two ways to see any situation, either in a positive way or with negative eyes, a positive person always wins the battle, because he can able to cool his nerves when it requires the most.
Take part in running or jogging; exercise will help you to be fit shortly, if it’s possible, then you can do that in the morning time also, morning time is the most productive time. Burnout all those unwanted fats, be the person you always want to be, healthy and full of confidence.
A confident person can do a lot of better work than a lazy person, Increases your bone density and relief all the stress.
Learn Something New
There is no limit in knowledge. The more you read, the more you become smarter., The more you educate yourself from the general one. Try to learn something every day if it’s a single word that’s good enough, at least; you should not stop learning.
There are plenty of sites are available for learning new things every day, almost all of these sites are completely free.
Practice Meditation on a regular basis. Meditation can bring you a lot of benefits with it, starting with a peaceful mind to a healthy lifestyle. There is an article available on this site you can start with that also. Here is the link What Is Meditation, and Why it is important.
Don’t forget that everything takes time; no one can achieve anything in a short period, but we can always take our first step. This would be the first step for us to making the higher self.
Maintain A Journal
I started my writing from the Journal, a personal space to communicate with myself. No worries only you and the paper to communicate, starting with your likes or dislikes about the day. What are the factors that you think you could make better in your day? What’s your goal for tomorrow? Anything that you feel like to write.
Penzu is a great app to keep up a journal. If you want, you can try that one also.
Sometimes it’s not about us, that give us the feel of alive; it’s about them whom we love the most, What about sending a text message to them, expressing how important they are to you.
I believe it will work, you will find peace through that, Let me know if you try it, and how it works for you. I will look forward to that.
Read Motivational Works
So do I need motivation in my life? Of course, I try my best to read the stuff that has the power to push me ahead. I used to read the positive news. Positive things that are happening in the world, it makes me feel good about my life.
It helps you to smile often; you can meet with others more confidently. I was thinking about writing one positive article a day, but for somehow I was not able to do so. What’s your take on that, Should I?
Write A Letter To Your Future Self
And there goes an interesting thing to try, write one letter to yourself by giving a date after one year, what you want to achieve or what is your goal for this year.
Try to make that one, and see how you changed over the year. You can use this site also. Futureme.org
Quit A Bad Habit
Try to quit a bad habit this year, of course, if; you have one. Do you know why people get in touch with bad habits because they love to do things that are not allowed to do commonly? Made your mind that you will quit one bad habit for sure this year.
Everything takes time, although it always depends on us how we deal with it.